How to Address Bullying in School as a Parent

Bullying is a severe problem in schools across the globe and has been for many decades. Back in the day, the bullying would usually only happen at the brick-and-mortar school itself. But with social media nowadays, it can seem like the bullying just never lets up. 

 

Often, the student being bullied will keep it a secret from their parents because of its shame or feel helpless. Unfortunately, it can all become too much for numerous children, and more than a few have fallen away to suicide. 

 

For a parent knowing their child is being bullied at school, there is a sense of heartbreak as it often is not a problem they can fix overnight. Parents always want to help solve their children’s issues but keeping your kid from getting bullied by another is usually not that simple. Here are a few tips on how to address the bullying situation with school officials. 

 

Make It a Point to Visit the Classroom Teacher

The classroom teacher may not have a clue that the bullying is happening. The child may be getting bullied by someone outside of their grade. The abuse may be happening in the hallways, locker rooms, recess, or at lunch. Still, it would be wise to visit your child’s classroom teacher in person to make sure they understand the seriousness of the situation. Do not accept the “kids will be kids” response either if it is presented. See if there can be a solution to the bullying that the classroom teacher can offer. 

 

Meet with the Administrators

As someone who was bullied as a child, it can significantly affect specific areas of your life later. It is not just a problem that occurs one day and is quickly forgotten. Bullying can go on for years. If meeting with the classroom teacher does not set things right, approach the administrator and let them know your concerns. Document all these meetings just in case you need to present information later to other people. 

 

Ask for a Meeting with Others

If the administrator does not seem to take the harassment appropriately, ask for another meeting, but include the “bully’s” parents and have your lawyer present. The lawyer may have a legal solution to present that should ensure this troubling predicament is met with urgency. 

 

There Are Other Options to Consider

I have witnessed firsthand how frustrated parents can be when school officials do not deem the bullying as anything other than kids acting like kids. If this is a situation you are encountering, other options can provide instant solutions. 

 

For example, online schools can present your child an education just as good as the one they would be receiving at that brick-and-mortar school. Another option would be to transfer to a nearby school instead. 

 

If problems persist after that, contact the authorities, and present your case. Filing a restraining order could be done without much hassle and if it is not followed, let the law take care of it from there. 

 

Help Your Child Find Another Avenue of Interest

Sometimes when you are getting bullied, that is all you can think of. Let iAchieve help take your child’s mind off the aggression so they can focus on something else. We offer music lessons for almost any instrument you can think of. It may just be the outlet they need to get them excited about life once again!

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